Argument Called Love!

Once i was bored sitting at office doing nothing, I had just resigned and I was
serving my Notice period. Staring at the computer deciding which website
to visit next or which topic to read about on Wikipedia? Since i had an
argument with my girlfriend , I was not willing to talk to her. I lazily typed
the word "LOVE" on Google and was browsing throught the interesting
things written on the word. Also, there were numerous arguments regarding
whether love exists or not? What caught my interest was a line which said
"Love is Conditional".

And thoughts started swimming across my brain, And i was not able to decide
If love is conditional or Unconditional? Because the reasoning in my mind
supported both the statements.

1 part of me said, Love in not UnConditional !!

Think about it..


Let's look at the dictionary definition for Unconditional:
Without conditions or requirements. Not limited by conditions; absolute.

To have to accept, understand, forgive, or trust someone to unconditionally
love them is CONDITIONAL, is it not?. There is always conditions and/or
requirements in order to love someone, is there not?

Lately I've noticed the new age movement moving more to this "
unconditionally love" one another bullshit which has been misguiding people
forever,but clearly none of them have any idea what unconditional means,
and it's pissing me off. Love takes work, and it's very conditional.
If you have to work at a relationship in order to love someone,
it can't be unconditional! Read the definition!

The other Part of me Said!!

I have unconditional love. I love everyone and everything all the time,
regardless of any reasons and conditions.

I love the sky, the moon, the planet, the people on it. I love the grass,
the trees, the highways and the buildings. I love those people I know
and those I don't. I love those that exist, and those that don't.
I love the spirits of the world, and the spirits without, and those spirits that
I don't even know about.I love everything, and everyone sometimes.

Real unconditional love exists. It's not a feeling, it's not a choice,
it's not a pattern, it's not a condition. It's an energy that flows, and always exists.