Sunday, March 28, 2010

Marriage=Commitment?

Why do people get married? I search it on google. And the answer i
find mostly says commitment,Love,Security,Religious factors etc...

However,In current society where everyone is heading to achieve
the metro sexual status, Is marriage still considered as way
to express commitment towards the person you love? One might
argue, I am committed to my Work,But its not good enough reason
to not change the Job for better prospects. Society is constantly
evolving with values changing drastically in accordance.

We are sacrificing values at the expense of love and marriage.In
urban Scenario, Expectations out of the other partner has increased
so much that patience and tolerance takes a beating. Everybody expects
more out the other. When desires cannot be met, marriages and love
breaks down, and partners move on in search for the better person.

Which is stronger? 2 people bonded out of love or bonded by marriage?
For both Marriage or Relationship to last, there must be mutual
level of understanding between the two.There must be communication,
tolerance, forgiveness. Marriage is not necessarily commitment
in case of all couples.It might be convenience to some,financial stability
to some or Just plain Sex for some.

Marriage is Not EQUALS commitment.Commitment=Marriage and commitment
might not be necessarily expressed by getting married.It should be felt
and followed.At the end that's what really matters.

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