I am 30. I am happily not married, Single by choice. Recently my parents have been on a mission to get me married. Since my upbringing dominates my western outlook, I am more pulled towards arranged marriage concept. It doesn't mean i have negative perception towards love marriage. But i often wonder if the 'Marriage' kills the 'love'. Though the concept of discovering a girl in arrange marriage sounds exciting, Trust me its like a Circus. You see a lot of clowns before you get to the interesting act.
In arranged marriage people u meet always present their best feet forward , But sometimes what you see is what you don't get.Why go through the melodrama.Relationship takes its own sweet time to blend in to our lives to decide if you can spend lives happily together.The process of Arrange marriage is like job interviews where you and the other party exchange their likes and expectations.I mean its such a mechanical process,there is not a chance for emotion.Then how in the world is one to decide a relationship of a lifetime based on such mechanical processes.
I have never regretted an independent decision made.then heck, this is matter of life!I think marriage is a union of rejoicing each other company for a lifetime than a reaction of some hormones that are screaming for act of Sex and you give it a legal approval of marriage….!! Quality relationship deserves quality time to grow than rush in to societal pressures and the so called marriageable age.What the heck is this marriageable age?I am shouldering professional responsibities but how emotionally matured am i to get into an alliance and stay committed for a lifetime.Its a big decision of my life and not something that can be rushed in matter of days.
In arranged marriage people u meet always present their best feet forward , But sometimes what you see is what you don't get.Why go through the melodrama.Relationship takes its own sweet time to blend in to our lives to decide if you can spend lives happily together.The process of Arrange marriage is like job interviews where you and the other party exchange their likes and expectations.I mean its such a mechanical process,there is not a chance for emotion.Then how in the world is one to decide a relationship of a lifetime based on such mechanical processes.
I have never regretted an independent decision made.then heck, this is matter of life!I think marriage is a union of rejoicing each other company for a lifetime than a reaction of some hormones that are screaming for act of Sex and you give it a legal approval of marriage….!! Quality relationship deserves quality time to grow than rush in to societal pressures and the so called marriageable age.What the heck is this marriageable age?I am shouldering professional responsibities but how emotionally matured am i to get into an alliance and stay committed for a lifetime.Its a big decision of my life and not something that can be rushed in matter of days.
